When you take a traumatized child, who then grows up to be a traumatized (repeating the cycle over and over) teen, adult middle aged woman and subject them to the attacks, abuse, demoralization, humiliation with (metaphorically) a machete, what do you have?
You know it was easier to understand my mother once I came to terms with myself because she was a child in so many ways. I am not saying stupid and without responsibility but merely she didn’t have the tools, knowledge and support she needed to be the mother she wanted to be. And she too was a traumatized person.
You know you are in the present of “bad” when they know how vulnerable the victim is. They know they are weak and unable to defend themselves. So they put the nail in the coffin, making sure that person cannot defend themselves.
I am sure they didn’t expect I would write a blog.
I’m sure they didn’t and their tongues are wagging.
My grandma was a bit like that. Traumatized, damaged and not the best Mom but a kind soul. My Mom forgave her too and they were very close. We took care of her the last few years of her life when she got Alzheimer’s. My Uncle wanted to stick her in a home but that was so no one would know he had embezzled $80k from her in just over a year. Oops! lol Do they know about your blog??
Yes they most definitely do. I wont like or approve this if you don’t want me to. I feel they wanted my mother and me out of the way because I have reason to believe they took a lot of money from these two old people before I even turned up and they were afraid I would find out.
Why would I not want u to approve? I believe it. Happened in my family. Then my Uncle actually had the audacity to ask where his share was after she died! I think it happens more than most people would like to believe. But as hard as it was helping take care of her, we had a lot of joy n laughter too. She was such a character lol.